When it comes to sexual positions, you could spend hours reading up on all the options. Most people don’t learn about new positions from reading, though; they might see something that piques their interest in a porno, or Nudelive and other popular sex cam sites. Regardless, every couple will have specific preferences. Do they normally go for a quickie, or have they decided to dabble in a kink that they’ve never had the chance to explore? Sometimes, though, they might decide that it’s time to slow down and focus on the intimacy of sex. And guess what? There are plenty of sexual positions for that too.
1. The Lotus
This position might be a bit awkward to get into at first, but the results are worth it. Begin with the insertive partner sitting with their legs crossed. Then the receptive partner can sit on the other person’s lap, wrapping their legs around their partner. Once that position is reached, the penis can go into the vagina, and the fun can begin. This is an especially romantic position because it gives both partners full access to each other’s bodies. Whether they want to kiss, maintain eye contact, or simply hold each other close, it’s a very intimate technique.
2. Coital Alignment Technique
Sometimes referred to as “the CAT”, this is a variation of the missionary position. There’s one big difference, though; the partner who’s on top (it can be someone of either sex) arches their back and lifts their shoulders with their arms straightened. Instead of focusing on penetration, this position provides more vigorous clitoral stimulation with the base of the penis. Yoga enthusiasts will recognize similarities to the upward-facing dog pose. Thanks to the easy rocking motion made possible in this position, it promotes a sexual flow state.
3. Iron Chef
Sounds intense, right? It can be – this is one of those classic “I need you now” sex positions. The partner being penetrated half-sits on something (a countertop, a washing machine, etc.), and the person doing the penetrating is able to thrust deeply while grabbing the other person’s rear. This position involves plenty of pressure on the clitoris, especially if both people emphasize the grinding between the base of the shaft and the clitoris.
4. The Butterfly
This one is also similar to the missionary position, but instead of the person on the bottom lying more or less flat, they’ll raise their legs to hook over the front of their partner’s shoulders. This allows for deeper penetration, as well as intense focus on the g-spot. If you want a position that allows synchronized, slow thrusting and simultaneous orgasms, this is a good one to try out.
Has anything grabbed your interest?
Whatever you typically get up to in the bedroom, these sexual positions have a lot to offer; maybe mixing things up could add some extra zest into your relationship. At any rate, we’re talking about sex here, not rocket science; why not give it a try and see what happens?